Start Within: Why Self-Awareness is the Real Career Advantage
🌿 Before the leap, the title, or the reinvention—there’s a deeper layer of clarity that comes first.
There’s no promotion, pivot, or personal reinvention that can outpace your own self-awareness. It’s the quiet foundation for intentional growth—your secret edge in a world that rewards noise, speed, and shiny strategies.
While everyone else is checking off boxes, chasing the next certification, or jumping industries, self-aware professionals are doing something else entirely:
They’re grounding into who they are.
And that makes all the difference.
If you’re serious about building a career that reflects your values, your energy, and your full potential—you don’t start with LinkedIn.
You start within.
Here’s how self-awareness becomes the anchor for real, soul-aligned career growth:
🌸 Know What You’re Brilliant At (And What You’re Not)
Self-aware professionals don’t wait for a performance review or outside validation to tell them what they’re good at.
They pause. Reflect. Ask. Integrate.
✨ Knowing your strengths lets you lead with clarity.
✨ Knowing your blind spots gives you power to grow.
It’s not about becoming perfect—it’s about becoming more honest.
🌿 Mini Exercise:
Take a moment and journal:
What tasks or conversations feel natural and energizing to you?
What do people consistently thank you for—even if you dismiss it as “no big deal”?
What situations trigger insecurity or resistance?
📘 Want to explore your strengths in a more modern, soulful way?
→ You Turn by Ashley Stahl – A powerful guide to help you reconnect with who you are, identify your natural gifts, and pivot into work that feels like you.
→ www.16personalities.com - A free strengths assessment test that I ask my clients to complete before our first coaching meeting.
🌸 Align with Your Values, Not Just the Job Description
You can land the “perfect” role on paper and still feel misaligned if it conflicts with your deeper values. Clarity about your core values—freedom, creativity, integrity, collaboration—becomes your compass.
Without it, you’ll chase jobs that check external boxes… and wonder why you still feel hollow inside. With it, you make decisions that feel like home.
🌿 Mini Exercise:
Write down your top 10 Career values.
Then ask: How well does my current role honor these values?
Where is the disconnect—and what small boundary or shift might bring me closer?
📚 Deepen this work with:
→ Dare to Lead by Brené Brown – A practical, values-driven guide to leadership, courage, and showing up authentically at work. (I read this book cover to cover several times when I was CEO of my own firm)
🛠 Want support identifying your career-specific values?
→ Explore my Career Values Coaching Tool – A guided workbook I created to help you clarify what matters most in your work life, so you can make career decisions that actually feel aligned.
🌸 Understand Your Emotional Landscape
Self-awareness isn’t just mental—it’s emotional.
Knowing your triggers, emotional responses, and default stress patterns is crucial if you want to lead, collaborate, or ask for more.
When you can stay centered under pressure, communicate with clarity, and respond rather than react—you become magnetic.
Not just skilled. Grounded.
🌿 Mini Exercise:
What emotions do you most often feel at work—joy, pressure, resentment, urgency?
When do you feel most reactive? What’s underneath that response?
📘 A gentle support for emotional clarity:
→ Permission to Feel by Marc Brackett – A thoughtful book on emotional intelligence and its role in personal and professional success. (Another all-time favorite of mine!)
🌸 Own Your Career Like It’s Your Business
With self-awareness comes self-responsibility.
You stop waiting for a manager, mentor, or HR department to hand you the next step—and you start creating it yourself.
That might look like initiating a project, pitching yourself for an opportunity, or realizing it’s time to outgrow the environment you’re in.
Self-leadership begins with knowing what you want—and trusting yourself enough to go after it.
🌿 Mini Exercise:
What is one next step you’ve been waiting for permission to take?
What would it look like to give yourself that permission?
🌸 Stay Open to Feedback + Evolution
True self-awareness isn’t about having it all figured out.
It’s about staying open. Curious. Willing to grow.
The more self-aware you become, the more you realize: you don’t have to be perfect—you just have to be honest.
Invite feedback from people you trust. Let it sharpen your insight, not shake your worth. Growth isn’t about building a polished performance.
It’s about building a life that’s aligned and real.
🌿 Mini Exercise: 360 Feedback
Ask 3 people you trust:
“What’s one strength you see in me I might not fully own?”
“What’s one growth edge you’d gently offer?”
Let their insights meet you in your evolution—not as judgment, but as mirrors.
🌷 Final Thought
You don’t need to overhaul your entire career overnight.
But you do need to know who you are—and what you’re here to build.
When you deepen your awareness of self, your external path becomes clearer.
Decisions feel lighter.
Alignment becomes inevitable.
Because it’s not just about building a successful career.
It’s about creating a life that reflects the truth of who you are.
💬 An Invitation
If you’re ready to uncover what’s next for you—and you want a coach who helps you align with your values, strengths, and purpose—let’s connect.
✨ Book a Breakthrough Coaching Session
✨ Explore My Coaching Tools — Get started today with my coaching tools downloads and exercises to help you get clear, get honest, and move forward from a place of inner knowing.
✨ Because I Value Your Trust
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